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如何对付无理的人?别让他们爽就对了。 psychology hike to handle a rude person when someone is rude to you they're actually looking for a dopamine hints to feel better about themselves and when they unload on you it feels really good for them so when someone is rude to you your main goal is to stop their dopamine hints and how do you do this first don't react, don't get angry, don't retaliate, don't scream, don't do anything just look at them calmly and ask are you okay and why did you do that this calls them out on their behavior and makes them look stupid because if you react you lose and they know this at this point they'll feel shame and apologize, but if they lash out at you just walk away because that takes away all their power。 明白了吗?

英国人未必都是绅士。 how are you? i'm good? how are you? where are you from i'm from china is that traditional outfit? yes, it is what is it represented? i'm the princess princess of the china dancing princess is it a character? yes, it is well it's been like close plays it? yes, because it's going to be halloween all right! what's the character called 韩香? have you ever been to china? no is it a good place it's amazing place what is it like the west? where there's lots of pubs and clubs and places ago? in shops is it just normal huh like anywhere else? yes, it is well it seems to be places oh what is that true? what do you mean? you can't really do what you want to do now? that's not true? we can do a lot of things so give me some chinese them to say hello 吃了吗? sure it lama is that a bit like japanese canichira oh you kissed bigger load japanese i worked for a japanese company for a while yeah at japanese colleagues oh, interesting! i used to listen to them answer the telephone as well yeah, there was a funny way i can't remember when the answer is teddy phone mushy mushy mushy mushy yes how tall are you how tall? i am why why you care about my height? i'm nervous because i'm too tall chinese are short chinese are short because you typed all chinese are short i mean do you know 姚明易建联 ah these tools they are basketball players and you like your you like your is it what are we talking about that? i saw whether you know how tall are you then at five for eight? so you must be really tall what do you think about marriage? are you proposing? no, i'm just wondering what do you think about marriage? you seems like i have a lot experience so i would like to know depends yeah what do you want? i suppose do you have a certain age? when you want to be married not really not until i meet the right person so what normal clothes you were in china well, how different things like what a british people were say same nothing big different yeah so are you happy with your lives? no oh, i'm sorry to hear that are you me i'm happy with the who i am right now and where i'm at yes wonderful yeah he's a very nice outfit thank you you have a good day。

like i could see this now i was like。

小朋友可比大人绅士多了,一个礼貌的小男孩收获了公主们优雅的回忆。 车主斑马线前礼让行人,收获男孩绅士般的脱帽致谢, 优雅永不过时。 二十五岁的人还吵着过儿童节时,五岁的男孩已经去过情人节了。 油! 当小球迷收到了运动员的礼物,却转身送给了身后的女孩。 别语。 小男孩悄悄把椅子放在老师身后,然后悄悄离开。 二十岁的小朋友就看到我蹲下来的时候,他就自己打, 男的给我放到后面,悄悄的放到后面。小男孩打完球进店进水。有礼貌的孩子惹人爱。 车主停车让行,小学生尽力回应。 小学生过马路向每一个让行的司机鞠躬, 司机和懂事的孩子 都值得点赞,爸爸妈妈和老师全部都教我,我要做一个懂礼貌、讲文明的孩子。他们抽时间让我,他们也很忙。怀旧用鞠躬来感谢他们。

英国人是怎么回应谢谢的? ah thank you you're welcome no worries that's all right cool, ain't nothing you're all good no problem。

vir three blaber birthday 定将同埋 iwadystapraprannnowenonnetenenowenowenon 把双皮补给脚上的位置买冰膜哦再加两万一千四百买十分吗?断开那那不好意思那这是你弄 哈哈哈哈哈哈。


外网网友发起的绅士礼仪测试,把手伸给男生,看他们会不会回应。骑士吻手礼不是,怎么这么多,我的理想型。

okay, so now, okay, good i'm so sorry it was like the worst thing today, i'm at the plaza hotel to take a etiquette class and let me tell you i am not the most graceful person i'm a messy eater i've never walked in heels before and i would not know how to conduct myself out of formal dinner so we're gonna see if it's possible to really give me a whole etiquette makeover today and i can walk out of here ready to have dinner with the queen etiquette is simply respect that's all it is if you really deconstruct everything and the core of what it is it's just simply respect a private etiquette course at beaumont etiquette taught at the plaza hotel can cost over one thousand dollars and promises to teach you all the graces of a duchess in just a few hours etiquette is something that seems so old fashioned to me, but the school founder michael meyer says business is booming and maybe not for who you'd think while micah has worked with members of england's royal family today her clients are mostly young professionals willing to dish out a month's rent to learn manners so i wanted to pay her a visit to learn why it's more relevant now than ever before we communicate mostly electronically now so we're losing some of those soft skills that are still important when you meet somebody face to face at this point i was a little more nervous than confident that i could pull it off but the time had finally come to see if i could be at least a little bit graceful for a day in front of you here we've got this is just a very simple one course table setting you have your water glass which is always directly above your knife, then you have your bread plate on your left so you put your next to your thalm on both sides this is the lower case b for bread okay the right is the lower case d for drinks oh, so if you put it down your bread plates always on your left and your drinks will always be on your right so the moment you get to a restaurant you want to take that napkin off of the plate and then just gently to the side just unfold it and then refold it in half so that the seams are both down like that and then the crease faces toward you excellent oh, no mine looks terrible no you never go down to your napkin because it looks like you're kind of like hiding something on the table so just open here and you bring the napkin up to your face and then oh just the inside hold the inside and you're actually putting all of your stains in the inside of napkin we just dab dab dab and then you close the napkins of all the stains stay contained to the inside of the napkin wow, now at the end of the meal then we would pinch in the middle and we would leave it to the left of the place setting to show that we were finished with the meal we are done we are not coming back from the table never do that so if you take nothing away from this course i want you to remember this so in american dining we often hold cutler like this and we cut cut cut and we rest our knives and then we switch and then we eat but the moment allies in business or in any formal social situation i want you to elevate and switch to what we call continental dining so the blade faces up perfect so you're holding with your thumb your index is out wrap and twist and then keeping the prongs down they go into your mouth so this is break i'm taking a break and then when i'm finished with my meal to signify to the server i'm finished then prongs are up and then handles are at four o'clock if it has a stem you hold it by the stem you never want to heat the liquid inside the glass they always just i just stick my hand right on there the full thing also, this is heavy and also for fingerprints right and then when you're drinking you're drinking from the same point of the glass every single time so that you avoid that lip ring and then back down directly over the night and i'm guessing you don't go 哈哈哈哈哈哈, but typically speaking the lower to the stem we hold the more sophisticated hold it becomes what about is this like the most sophisticated? whatever, it is you're drinking we never go past forty five degrees okay, up up up up, up, up, up up up up up see you soon pretty much yeah that's enough right if you just don't want to go yes, absolutely i have done that a bar and that dinner and that all over time really i've been going like this so what you do you take your teeth and it's not clockwise or counterclockwise it's actually just twelve o'clock to six o'clock and then making no noise i want you to pinch through and support perfect and when you're sipping you sip down you look down into the tea arms up one down two down okay now, i want you to go ahead and try it again you have to keep the napkins and don't do this in public ever go ahead and take another sip of your tea 好 you now take that step see you're nice and in i'm very hungry, so my first instinct is gonna be just to kind of tear into it, but i know that's not what we're here to do so as much fun as it is you put everything on your plate at once, that's not the correct etiquette, i know i think you almost let your guests choose first one thing with any kind of communal food to remember is that you never take straight off and put it into your mouth so you should take a bite that's not overly large at the whole goal of affirmative to say social you can take up to four bytes before you break again so you only take four bites for food and then you break exactly okay and that's just not eat too fast i eat so fast it's normal it's very small and then i breathe when i eat normally i'll put it on hahaha some modern day icons of etiquette i think easily the duchess of cambridge and prince william i think are constantly we see them very polished and respectful to everybody and everybody that they work with i think michelle obama is a really great example of etiquette now that i knew how to talk the talk it was time to learn to walk the walk quite literally and now i would like you put on heels so we're gonna don't be scared i'll walk you through everything i've never walked in heels not a single time this was truly the final test of whether or not this class could really give me a royal makeover go ahead and just give me your first attempt straight through and back and we're off okay, all right but i'm going to do for you because you're not comfortable wearing heels i'm going to give you something to do with your hands to help you and also helps with balance at first too so now just you can put that to your side or front if you whatever, you want and if you're an awkward heel person always hold something because then you're almost not like cheater tottering or you actually have something to hold your balance so go ahead and now with your new technique a little bit larger stride nice rollback shoulders hands fingers together and come on fight for me much better night and day maybe i wasn't going to be a pro at the heels right away, but mica had given me the confidence that i could become an etiquette expert with practice now quiz, pop quiz okay queen's pose duchess slant cambridge cross sussex slant i'm basically a royal no it's not a big deal right well, i opted for their most exclusive and intensive class boma etiquett offers many different options including a group course for one hundred and fifty dollars by the end of the class i realized why young people are so eager to learn mica's techniques something that sounded outdated to me at first became a skill i could use in my office be more professional and even with my friends just to show respect and the whole goal of our courses is that when they leave they leave more confident than when they walked in okay, never lick your fingers never lick your fingers。

救命啊!是谁羡慕了我不说,这个在英国留学的小姐姐每天都会在路边随机找一位英国帅哥帮忙拍摄牛视频。关键是每个绅士最后都会非常真诚的夸她。 excuse me can you help me take the video? 李晨李晨 cool cool cool cool cool! wait thank you how about my performance? thank you could you please tell me have the video here help me take the video thank you very nice very nice! can we take a picture with you yeah! can you help me take the video sir sir can you help me take the video sure of course 哎,洋洋,你吃东西的时候能不能斯文一点呀? thank you you got it i got it thank you oh yeah! excellent! excellent! so help me take the video yeah for me! yeah! 水果榨汁我爱喝水果榨汁咖啡。请问每天被帅哥夸赞是种什么样的体验啊?

来到英国才知道的五件事!英国人都是绅士!话说大家是不是觉得英国人都是这样?我刚来英国的时候啊,也都觉得英国人其实都很有礼貌。他们最常说的话叫 sorry, thank you, sorry sorry sorry。 事实上啊,这些英国人他们都是闷骚啊。当你跟一个英国人真正的混熟了起来之后,你会觉得他们满口都是各种骚话,各种吐槽。你刚刚认识他们时候啊,简直两个人。 英国人都很爱喝茶吗?其实英国人喝的大多数都是红茶加奶。哎,那不就是奶茶,英国人真的吃的很差吗?我之前呢,出了一期英国黑暗料理的视频, 大家可以往前翻一下。但是啊,英国除了这些黑暗料理,其实他们好吃的东西还是有很多的。 这个当然,最适合中国味的当然是中国菜啊。伦敦说不懂,伦敦经常下雨啊。是这样,但是雾现在真的没有这么多了。伦敦当年之所以被叫做雾都,是因为工业革命期间,全伦敦的工厂都在烧煤,而这些煤烟呢,造成了雾霾。 这么多年过去了,早就没有了呀。听说哈利波特是鹦鹉,鹦鹉真的有不好吃,看来是藏不住了。

嘿,我们都听说英国人真的很有礼貌啊,但是有些时候他们只是嘴上有礼貌,但是背地里 这是爱吹吗?我的妹举个例子来讲。一方面挖掘出生物超级高出旅游的感受。 f 三万三啊这是每条小饭后啊一栋爱睡眠呢 s 都快。 这是谁啊?这是每条小白哦买哦买噶了一只嘴满满的味呢。烧饼啊 那小孩啊,不就睡了?没呢啊呀,就说了哎。我说 昂首特跑。

我在英国尴尬的瞬间九有一次我去图书馆借本书,然后我到了那个三十的地方,想去借书吗,把书给了他。我当时就下意识说了这么一句啊,美啊 对,可以。大概是这样子哈。然后我旁边有一个那个时候比我年纪比较大的一个哥哥吧,大概是三四十岁啊。当时吓了一跳。嗯,这样。看了我一下,就是很吃惊,看了我一下, 然后可能他上下打乱我了一下,发现我是一个亚洲人啊。然后他可能觉得啊 ok, 就可能会觉得情有可原。我后来一直不知道为什么,直到后来我才知道没挨。这个词在口语当中代表什么意思。 因为我们都知道美而代表的是很有礼貌。但是他其实在口语当中他其实就是礼貌过头了。相当于是那种我能有幸为您 服务吗?或者为您怎样怎样的,就是那种服务性质特别特别强的那种语气啊。那这个时候你可以说美癌,比方说你在那种高级的餐厅当中,你可能会说美颜还不那什,像那种高级的那种百货公司 xy 神, happy birthday 就那种。那是可以的,但是就是那种日常的交流哈,同辈之间也好,你跟上下级之间也好。还有就是嗯,就是像我刚刚那个在图书馆的情况下,你说美癌就相当于什么我能有幸借您个本,我能有幸啊, 借本书吗?就是你就感觉特别的卑微,你就回头一想想,觉得哎,怪不得人家那样看我一眼,原来真是有原因的,怪怪的。

他抢着回答问题的那一刻就已经赢了。 how much do you spend on our wedding ring thirty bunk yeah, but she deserves you know he spent that much on a wedding ring for you as a gesture what does he get in return? i think i should answer i get a partner at loyal the mother of my children the most beautiful woman that i've ever the most important thing is how she treats me and how she treats my family and it's worth every investment there is but a lot of people would say you could have the same thing a part enough for life the mother of your kids without dropping thirty five can a ring you could money is not an issue like if you can get a cheaper ring and it's the person that's for you whatever, but it also depends on how much you make so 他的境界真的好高啊,活该他有钱。

who would like some hot chocolate can i have you。

英国人说话到底有多委婉? hello, please give me back my book good morning how are you i hope you were doing well and i'm so sorry to bother you about this i'm writing to you to ask about a book that i lent to you a couple of months ago and i was just wondering when we'll be the best time for you to return of course i'm not urging you i just wanted to check if you have finished using it i'm looking forward to hearing from you have a lovely day thank you so much kind regards tony。

凯特王妃这次丢人丢大了!据悉,近日韩国第一夫人携带老公访问英国,在查尔斯和卡米拉接见韩国第一夫人和老公的时候,凯特王妃为了表达自己的尊重和礼节,在公共查尔斯和韩国第一夫人老公聊天寒暄的时候, 凯特王妃给公共行了屈膝礼,可是当时的查尔斯看都没有看儿媳凯特王妃一眼,估计这次让凯特王妃非常难堪。