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这是珠海最美的情侣中路,沙滩、阳光还有海岸线。顺着情侣中路往前走,就是爱情邮局了。这是珠海最浪漫的景点之一了。 在爱情邮局,我们可以给心爱的她挑一个礼物寄过去,也可以写一张贺卡寄给未来更好的自己。 在珠海,你们还喜欢去什么地方?告诉我吧!

听说这是现代恋爱通行证,恋爱奔现第一次测艾滋,犹豫了好久才敢扎,呕血出的好快啊我的妈要滴四滴血,一共特别的顺利,一点也不疼,根本没啥感觉, 就像被蚊子叮了一下,然后就是滴几滴缓冲液,然后就是耐心的等待结果。谈恋爱的一定要跟对象一起测一下,等的时候很紧张,但还好没事,都是一道杠黑。 这个艾滋梅毒乙肝饼干,一次测四项,一定要保护好自己,主要这个东西一旦感染就是一辈子的事情。产品保密发货,点击下方链接即可购买!

i guess i was wrong about the really good kisser thing hahaha 先来做个大胆的假设, 如果全世界的美女都排着队,哭着喊着想和你约会,而且他们个个通情达理,事后绝不纠缠,第二天就从你的世界里消失的无影无踪,你是不是觉得这简直是男人的人生巅峰呢? 但如果这一切的代价是,你将永远无法得到一个属于自己的真爱。 每一个和你共度良宵的姑娘,转过身就能立刻遇到他的灵魂伴侣,步入婚姻殿堂,而你就成了那个全城闻名史上最强的爱情垫脚石和真爱摆渡人。你还笑得出来吗? why not am i not your type? you are definitely my type? what's your type black and blue riddled with bandages? 今天咱们要聊的这个故事,讲的就是这样一个拥有着全世界男人最羡慕的超能力,却也承受着最扎心诅咒的倒霉蛋的故事。 we're gonna get lucky! 这是一部你看完可能会开始重新思考运气和爱情到底是什么关系的奇妙电影。 查克是个事业有成的牙医, 他的悲催命运要从一九八五年的一场童年派对开始。那个时候,小查克在玩真心话大冒险时,因为拒绝了一个暗恋他的歌特风小巫女的亲密要求,结果被对方当场下了一个恶毒的诅咒。 任何女孩子,只要和你在一起,那么她的下一任必定是她的真命天子。 ow, get off the freestyle charlie logan you are not my boyfriend anymore i hex you you what i hex you you will never be happy around you love will fall like rain but you won't hold it your heart will pain once the girl has been with you to the next she will be true is that phil collins ow 一 晃二十多年过去了,茶客长大了,英俊多金,身边桃花不断。可奇怪的是,每段恋情都光速告终。 be weird you were dating katie six months ago and now she's married a doctor i'm a doctor he's a heart surgeon you're a dentist it's like saying general patton and colonel mustard to both military men hi doctors too natalie。 直到有一次,他去参加前女友的婚礼,新郎竟然激动地举杯感谢他,称他为带来好运的幸运星。 so you're that charlie what charlie you know charlie the the dentist。 查克这才恍然大悟,原来那个童年的诅咒竟然是真的。这个秘密一传十,十传百,查克成了全程女性趋之若鹜的活锦鲤。他的诊所预约电话被打爆,但都不是来看牙的,而是想通过他找到真爱的单身女性。 good morning reba good morning doctor logan good morning doctor i think i have a cavity me too。 在 损友私图的怂恿下,查克半推半就地接受了这个设定,从一个渴望爱情的普通男人 摇身一变变成了享受短暂欢愉、无需负责的慈善家,开启了一段看似天堂般的荒唐岁月。 that's crazy charlie stuart, carol are these back in season again you're getting married what can i say i guess you are lucky charm。 然而,这种日复一日眼花缭乱的生活很快让查克感受到了前所未有的空虚。 他发现自己变成了一个没有感情的工具人,女人们看他的眼神里没有爱,只有利用。 每一次亲密接触都像是一场冰冷的交易,为别人的幸福做嫁衣,而他自己除了身体的疲惫,什么也留不下。 providing a much needed public service, you'd be helping women find love and don't come bitching to me you haven't found miss wright, yet if you've got women lining up for the position and you're turning your back on them, i guess i did it for the right reasons。 这种身体与爱的完全剥离状态,让他深刻体会到没有情感连接的亲密是多么的孤独。 what the hell are you talking about you're a lucky charm you have sex with someone and then they find their true love isn't that how it works has everybody lost their minds that's ridiculous that's absurd。 就 在他对人生感到极度迷茫和厌倦的时候,一个叫凯姆的女孩像一道闪电,猝不及防地劈进他的生活。 i'm sorry, i'm sorry, oh, no are you okay? i'm alright, i didn't i didn't mean to。 凯姆是一名可爱的企鹅饲养员, 阳光漂亮,但同时也是个彻头彻尾的倒霉蛋。她不是那种完美无瑕的女神,而是会平地摔跤,把东西搞得一团糟的笨拙女孩。 grumpy, no you okay, i think i chipped a tooth。 两人的初次相遇就充满了戏剧性,凯姆的各种意外状况让查克哭笑不得。 actually, i am a dentist, you're a dentist you'll love me perfect teeth no cavities want to see hold on, hold on, i'm sorry, water, oh, no, but。 正是这种不加掩饰的真实和纯粹,像一股清流,瞬间冲刷掉了查克内心的麻木,让他第一次感觉到了真正的心动。 now not now, where do i get this in here now you okay。 查克无可救药的爱上了凯姆,可他比任何人都清楚这意味着什么。一旦他和凯姆的关系突破最后一道防线,根据诅咒,凯姆的下一任就会是她的丈夫。 i have a feeling that you are a very good kisser and i know this because i spent an hour and a half inside your mouth and i scoped it out what makes you think i'll be kissing you huh, you alright, oh, you okay, oh, i guess i was wrong about the really good kisser thing。 而他将永远失去的。这成为了他生命中最痛苦的悖论。于是,我们看到了一个男人为了留住爱情有多么努力。 did you know that the average person produces ten thousand gallons of saliva in their lifetime did you know that i produce ten thousand gallons of saliva in one kiss ew, that's disgusting i'm serious, i'm serious i don't like sloppy kisses。 约会时小心翼翼,甚至在情感最浓烈时强行踩刹车,场面既心酸又好笑。 uh, you look great, i had a good time i gotta go i gotta go! 为了能和凯姆长厢厮守,查克决定主动出击,破除这个纠缠他半生的诅咒。他和好友司徒制定了一系列荒唐的计划,试图找到一个绝对不可能嫁人的女人来当试验品, 以为只要这个女人在和他之后没有找到真爱咒就能失效。 eleanor's scalpel, she's angry rude and she smells bad in addition to back acne, she's got front acne and side acne, so you're saying that she's single she's your best bet man you sink the soldier all you want this chick, ain't never getting married if she was the last woman on the face of the earth humanity would come to a screeching halt。 这个过程充满了各种啼笑皆非的尝试和失败,也展现了查克从一个被动接受命运的男人转变为一个愿意为爱对抗所谓天意的勇士。 so a thousand dollars and all you have to do is take me to dinner well, i actually thought that maybe we could you know we you and i could uh。 他不再是那个享受幸运的茶客,而是变成了害怕幸运降临在心爱之人身上的茶客。 我们换个角度从凯姆的视角看,在他的世界里,茶客是个声名狼藉的花花公子,几乎所有认识的女性朋友都和他有过一腿。 i know three women you've gone out with and i'm just not into dating as a sport uh wait you said if anybody had any questions no, i'm not going out with you that's not my question that was a little girl's question i have a new question and mine is what is that penguin right there。 但为什么她还是被吸引了呢?或许正是因为查克那份反常的克制。 wake up, good morning, it's a beautiful day wow, wow, am i supposed to eat my way out of here i walked into the supermarket and i stood there, i was like what does cam want and i couldn't stop i was like you want that, and that, and that, and so i just i got it all they didn't have spam though i did i talked to the manager but i guess they're not gonna have it until next week anyway, enjoy are you okay i am fantastic i feel like just i did this and then i gave myself one of these look, and i made out with myself you're acting kind of strange no don't know。 在 一个充斥着快餐式恋爱的两千年代,一个男人能如此拼命地想要和你建立精神连接,却极力地避免身体关系这种笨拙的深情。 ta oh oh oh oh oh oh oh oh oh got it got me going to penguin right now woo! 而电影中那个荒唐的诅咒,其实也是一种约会文化焦虑的绝妙讽刺,它影射了人们在感情中的不安全感和对洁净的渴望。那些排队找茶客的女人, 他们并不坏,而是代表了在茫茫人海中找不到方向,宁愿相信一个虚无缥缈的传说,也不愿或不敢投入时间和精力去经营一段真实情感的群体。 charlie oh you don't like sushi um ty listen to india you need to leave me alone okay, i need some space so tonight is no good i'm very close to changing my phone number do you understand they're they're they're they're they're they're they're they're they're they're they're they're they're they're they're they're they're they're they're they're they're they're they're they're they're they're they're they're they're they're they're they're they're they're they're they're they're they're they're they're they're they're they're they're they're they're they're they're they're they're they're they're they're they're they're they're they're they're they're they're they're, they're, they're, they're they're。 这部电影用一个喜剧的外壳包裹了现代都市男女在爱情面前的普遍困惑和挣扎。 no, sorry, it's over, let's see george george, hey, george, hey, what's up? george, i'm not george man, i'm gonna stay with you cam what you're gonna stay with cam can you hear me you're not georges you're georges charlie, i met george what are you doing i just met george, she's a real jerk what you shouldn't like him i want to see you stay away from me stay away from me, no wait oh wait what is wrong with you oh 所以 结局是什么呢?查克最终打破诅咒了吗?其实这部电影告诉我们, 真正困住查克的,或许从来就不是那个小女孩的戏演,而是他自己内心深处对于亲密关系和承诺的恐惧。 charlie, my entire life, i've been nothing more than a stepping stone to every relationship i've ever been in there's always been a next guy who's better than me for once in my life i want to be that next guy, i've never said this to anybody in my whole life cam, i love you i love you cam, please don't go! 他 一直扮演着倒数第二个男友的角色,因为他从未真正的鼓起勇气去成为那个最后的男人。当他为了凯姆愿意冒着失去他的风险,坦然接受自己可能成为他幸福的垫脚石时, 他才真正理解了爱的本质不是占有,而是成全与付出。也正是在那一刻,他才真正拥有了获得幸福的资格。 charlie, excuse me? aren't you the guy who's anymore? 这个故事最终温暖的告诉我们, 爱情里没有那么多命中注定和玄学魔法,所谓的诅咒和幸运往往是我们自己给内心设下的障碍。爱情里真正的诅咒是害怕付出的懦弱,而打破诅咒的唯一魔法是奋不顾身的勇敢。 i see him i have him。

处对象前不查这个真的心太大了吧?全国登记在册的艾滋患者都超一百五十多万人了,这还没算那些没被发现的。我跟你说啊,这玩意最阴的就是潜伏期,短的两三年, 长的能藏十几年不发病,发病前跟正常人无意,搞不好连他自己都蒙在鼓里。过来人教你们轻松排查这个四合一检测卡,艾滋、梅毒、乙肝一卡全能测,百分之九十九点九九的准确率, 只要指尖取几滴血就行,十五分钟出结果,超过半小时的作废哈。怎么看结果呢?要是单杠,恭喜你就是虚惊一场。要是哪一项出现双杠呢? 那就要及时去疾控中心复查了,真不是吓唬你,艾滋目前是没法根治的,要是感染了就是一辈子的事。谈恋爱可以上头查这个千万别犯赖。

能一辈子走下去的感情啊,都得一起熬过四关,而最后那一关呢,百分之九十的情侣都跨不过去。第一关,热恋期,两人基本没有什么矛盾,毕竟在这个时候啊,都在端着,装的温柔体贴,装的大度包容,都把自己最讨喜的一面摆给对方看。 所以这个时候,核心矛盾都出现在猜忌上面,怕对方没那么爱自己,怕这份好是装出来的。这一关的关键就是敢说 有什么想法,直接就表明了内耗能少一半,别总盼着对方能按照你想要的方式来爱你。第二关,磨合期,争吵矛盾都开始扎堆的冒出来,大多数啊,在热恋期的四到六个月之后,就会来了不少情侣啊,就宅在这里,这一关要想通,天生一对的人啊,只有在电视剧里面才会 出现。现实里啊,完全没有适配的两个人,只有愿意互相迁就合适的两个人。闹矛盾的时候啊,要解决问题,而不是揪着对方不放,允许对方和你不一样,这叫尊重,逼着对方跟你一模一样,那叫控制。第三关,平淡期, 没了激情,甚至觉得不爱了,很多人守不住长期感情,就是没有懂这个理,这不是爱情到头了,反倒是真爱的起点。所以这一关的课题很简单,既然选择了在一起,就坚定的守着这份感情, 不是腻了就换,而是在柴米油盐的平淡里,依然愿意陪着对方走。要是你能和他顺顺利利的闯过前三关呐,那恭喜你来到了第四关,稳定期。到了这一步啊 们已经摸透了爱情的核心真谛,也懂了情比金坚到底有多沉,更养成了无条件把后背交给对方的默契,练就的两人携手就能扛住所有风浪的 从容。这个时候再遇到难题,不光能妥当的解决,反倒能借着解决问题让感情更加升温。而这一关的课题就一句话,放开手脚,好好享受你们的人生就好啦!

很多情侣没有 tiktok, 不是 真的没有,而是不能。因为深度对话,它需要两个人有各自的内容和思考逻辑,各自带着各自的人生观、爱情观、世界观等等去表达各自的看法。我觉得这跟单纯找话题还不一样,因为深度沟通它除了我们带着观察的视角去了解对方, 而对我个人我觉得更受益的是你表达之后一种被接住的感觉,而且这个被接住的感觉,我觉得他可以是来自于对方对我相同内容的认同,对我表达的不同观点的包容,以及对我表达的尊重。 而且我很享受在这个过程当中体会到了一种爱的升华的感觉。因为如果你只是单纯的聊话题的话,你可以和比如说有阅读量,有相同内容的人,你去和他实现。但是在爱情里面,这种被认同、被尊重、被同等认真回应的感觉, 应该是除了爱情关系外我无法体验到的。其实难点是很多场景我们无法去立刻激发起深度沟通的场景。 ok, 我 给大家推荐一个卡牌,这个卡牌就是朋友推荐给我的主演卡牌,它很好用。为什么呢?因为它里面包含了很多 生活啊、家庭啊、工作啊、内心啊等等很多多维度的一些话题。而这些话题呢,我觉得他是能够带动我们双方去更加立体的看向彼此的,并且他可能会触及到一些,比如说我们生活场景当中 不经常会触及到一些话题感受和故事。就包括我觉得深度话题他其实不单单只关系,因为我自己对我自己是有很深刻的探索欲望的,所以我有的时候也会拿出来一张问题,然后去 进行表达。在这个过程当中呢,就是我一方面可以锻炼到自己的啊深度思考和表达能力,那么同时呢,就是也可以让自己变得更有话题。就比如说随机一个问题,你认为我们未来当下 会因为什么样的事情而分开? ok, 这个话题抛出去之后,你能收获到什么样的信息点?比如说你能看到对方他在关系当中投入的百分比,他是如何看待关系的当下和未来的,他认为你们关系当中可能存在埋雷或者说不可调和的矛盾是什么?有没有这个矛盾,以及你有没有觉察到这个矛盾等等。 你可以通过一个话题,然后去延展出来非常多的信息点。而你要反馈的我觉得应该是引导两个人去看向这个问题, 他埋雷他是从哪开始埋的,以及他是基于对你人的判断,还是说他对于自己规划的问题而生成了这样的一个想法。比起深度沟通的结果,其实我更享受过程,享受这个同盟成立的感觉,而这个感觉他来自于我觉得是两个人对彼此的更加了解, 以及我们对彼此互相尊重接纳,这样的话就已经成为了彼此相互的底气。因为内核的链接,那么外界他但凡再出现任何的风吹草动,就很难影响到关系,因为这个实心他就已经扎在这了。 有句话怎么说?就是所有的关系本质上都是利益关系,但是这句话他虽然接不接受都是事实,但是想要用好这句话,我觉得本质是你对利益的理解能有多深刻。就像两个再高级的灵魂,他如何实现爱情,最终还是要通过世俗的稀释才能实现。