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挑战全网最全的人体说明书!未来三十六个月,我将深度抛弃一百种致命病的身体警报,帮你看清那些容易被忽略的危险信号。今天讲梅毒,有一种病毒被称为最伟大的模仿者, 而这种病在中国每天有超过一千四百人确诊,他能伪装成上百种疾病。起初只是一颗无痛的疹子,出现三天后消失,随后他会模仿脱发、咳嗽、皮肤过敏,然后自愈。 两年后,在你毫无察觉时,他已经把头盖骨筑出密密麻麻的孔洞,在内脏和血管里种下硬如橡胶的肿块,让人鼻梁塌陷,血管爆裂。最绝望的是,当他入侵中暑,神经大小便失禁,语言混乱、肌肉震颤的痛苦 将伴随终身。他就是梅毒,我是阿良。今天我们不谈道德,只谈病。为什么梅毒被称为伟大的模仿者?他如何悄无声息的穿越我们身体里最坚固的血脑屏障,侵蚀大脑?那些无症状的感染者到底有 多危险?梅毒的故事几乎就是一部扭曲的欧洲近代史。一四九四年,法国国王查理巴什围攻纳布勒斯,他的军队里爆发了一种可怕的新文艺,患者浑身长满脓疮,骨骼剧痛,面部塌陷,在极度痛苦中死去。 因为当时意大利人管法国人叫高卢人,这种病就得了个外号,叫高卢病。而法国人当然不认呢,他们反手就把这病叫纳布勒斯病。病毒还没研究明白呢,名字先在政治和骂战中传遍了欧洲, 当时没人知道他到底是什么。医生们束手无策,只能用汞,也就是水银来治疗。他们让病人泡水银澡,喝含水银的药水,用水银蒸汽熏,结果就是很多人没被梅毒杀死,反而先死于汞中毒,牙齿脱落,神经受损,死状凄惨。 这场持续了几个世纪的以毒攻毒,本身就是一场巨大的医学悲剧,可更诡异的是,这种病似乎格外偏爱天才和权贵。根据后世许多医学史家的研究推断,十六世纪的英国国王亨利巴氏、 十八世纪的音乐家贝多芬,十九世纪的文学家弗洛派莫泊桑,乃至哲学家尼采、画家梵高。他们晚年出现的神经精神症状, 如耳聋、精神错乱、瘫痪、癫痫、出现幻觉等,都可能与晚期神经梅毒有关,并且直至生命尽头依然无药可救。 而这种病在中国每天有超过一千四百人确诊。他最阴险的地方在于极其擅长演戏。 他的真身长得像个微型弹簧,只要皮肤或有个肉眼看不见的微小破口,他就能顺着 钻进体内,再钻进去的地方会先长出一个小硬疙瘩,这个小硬疙瘩不疼也不痒,甚至没过几天自己就消失了,让很多人误以为只是普通的皮肤问题。殊不知,这个时候的病毒已经潜入血液,并且开始在全身安家。 接下来,病毒会伪装出各种模样,有时候是满身的红疹子,瞧着跟换季过敏没两样,有时候是成片的掉头发,看着倒像是最近压力太大,熬夜太凶。他甚至能伪装成感冒发烧、嗓子疼,或者是关节酸痛。 这些症状他们即便不吃药也会自行消失。可实际上,病毒会趁着这阵平静,偷偷的穿过大脑的防护层,缓慢的啃食神经,这种潜伏会持续十到二十年, 直到最后,病毒会开始大规模的破坏脑细胞。原本体面睿智的人会变得神志不清,性格大变,甚至生活无法自理。他还会咬断脊髓的信号,让走路变得像踩在棉花堆里一样飘忽, 甚至让全身关节在没察觉的情况下慢慢烂掉。如果不及时干预,大约百分之十五的感染者会因为脑部功能衰竭,要么因为心脏血管被掏空而突然没命。 而这么可怕的病毒,很长时间人类拿它束手无策。我们前面已经说过了,水银治疗的荒诞转机出现在一九零九年,一位名叫保罗埃利希的德国科学家经过多年的艰苦钻研,发明了一种叫身凡纳明的化合物,代号六零六。 这个代号的含义是,他们做了六百零六次实验,前六百零五次都失败了,第六百零六次终于成功。这是人类第一个靶向抗菌化学疗法,被誉为魔法子弹,因为它能相对精准的攻击梅毒。螺旋体对人体的伤害相对较小, 虽然副作用依然很大,有人会因为注射而出现严重的神经毒性反应,但已经是相比于水银治疗的巨大进步,但是他依然无法根治已经深入神经系统,侵入大脑的梅毒。 真正的革命呢,是一九二八年,一个名叫亚历山大弗兰明的苏格兰科学家的一次幸运的失误。 弗莱明在实验室里培养葡萄球菌,由于疏忽呢,他忘记了消毒一个培养菌,当他回来检查时,他惊奇的发现,培养菌里的葡萄球菌周围长满了一种青色的霉菌,而且那些细菌都死了。他仔细观察了这种霉菌,给他取名为青霉素。 这个发现本应是流芳百世的突破,但很遗憾,当时的科学界反响平平,直到二战爆发,才有人意识到这可能是拯救成千上万伤兵的救命药。英国和美国开始联手进行大规模的青霉素生产和研发。 到一九四二年,美国生产出了第一批可用于临床的青霉素。一个著名的同时又充满龙里黑暗的悲剧性实验,最终证明了青霉素的神奇效力。 一九四六年至一九四八年间,美国政府在一个名叫塔斯积极的黑人社区,对一批患有梅毒的黑人男性进行了一场极端残忍的对照实验。 为了观察青霉素治疗组的惊人疗效,他们故意给予对照组无效的治疗,或者根本不治疗。 那些患者被蒙在鼓里,以为自己在接受治疗,其实他们什么都没有得到。这个实验一直持续到一九七二年才被曝光。尽管这个违背人伦,违背医学伦理的塔斯积极梅毒实验是人类医学史上最黑暗的一页, 但他冰冷的用人命积累的数据,用血淋淋的方式,无可辩驳的证明了一个事实,青霉素是梅毒的克星,是天敌。 今天,青霉素依然是治疗梅毒的首选和最有效药物,且成本低廉。但别着急,松口气,青霉素是王牌,但出牌的时机决定生死。 梅毒早期,一针青霉素就能定点清除,可一旦病毒钻进大脑,必须进行长期治疗,并且住院监护。更残酷的是,大量细菌尸体引发免疫风暴,会导致高热、头痛甚至癫痫。 治愈后被摧毁的神经永远长不好,记忆丢了就是丢了,记住王牌在手。但窗口期不等人,眨一下眼,他就关上了。所以,关于梅毒,阿良给你几个最直白的忠告。第一,他能治,但伤害买不了单。 青霉素即使杀死了病原体,也无法完全修复如初。例如晚期神经,梅毒导致的瘫痪、失明、耳聋或痴呆,往往难以逆转心血管。梅毒造成的心脏功能损伤也可能伴随终生。第二,筛查比面子重要一万倍。 它是一种病,和感冒发烧一样需要治。婚前孕前务必检查,尤其是怀孕早期筛查和干预,几乎能百分之百防止传给孩子。第三,没感觉是最大的陷阱, 一期、二期的所有症状都会消失,这恰恰是骗局的核心。判断有没有中招,唯一可信的不是感觉,是正规医院的抽血检查。 第四,安全措施是盾牌,但不是金钟罩,它能大大降低风险,但因为皮损可能长在任何地方,它无法保证绝对的安全。 最后,阿良想说,梅毒真正的恐怖,或许不在于病证本身,而在于它结实了一种我们熟视无睹的危险。那些最能摧毁我们的东西,往往不是电闪雷鸣的绝症, 而是那些披着普通外衣,利用我们的忽视、侥幸与沉默,在时间深处静静发酵的隐患。他模仿各种小病小痛,模仿自愈,模仿健康,最终目的是篡改你的人生剧本。 对抗这样的幽灵,我们需要的不仅是现代医学的一针青霉素,更是一种清醒的勇气, 敢于正视健康的风险,敢于撕掉无谓的羞耻标签,用科学的眼光保护自己最珍贵的大脑与人生, 因为所有的了解都是对抗未知恐惧的第一剂良药。我是阿良,下期见。拜拜。

good morning and thank you for joining me many of you in this room are my friends many in the in this room know me many of you have cheered for me or you work with me or you supported me now every one of you has good reason to be critical of me i want to say to each of you simply and directly i am deeply sorry for my irresponsible and selfish behavior i engaged in i know people want to find out how i could be so selfish and so foolish people want to know how i could have done these things to my wife feeling and to my children and while i have always tried to be a private person there are some things i want to say ela and i have started the process of discussing the damage caused by my behavior as elin pointed out to me my real apology to her will not come in the form of words it will come from my behavior over time we have a lot to discuss and however, what we say to each other will remain between the two of us i am also aware of the pain my behavior has caused those of you in this room i have let you down i have let down my fans for many of you especially my friends my behavior has been a personal disappointment to those of you who work for me i have let you down personally and professionally my behavior has caused considerable worry to my business partners to everyone involved in my foundation including my staff board of directors sponsors and most importantly the young students rereach our work is more important than ever thirteen years ago my dad and i envision helping young people achieve their dreams through education this work remains unchanged and will continue to grow from the learning center students in southern california to the earl wood scholars in washington, d c millions of kids have changed their lives and i am dedicated to making sure that continues, but still i know i have barely disappointed all of you i have made you question who i am and how i have done the things i did i'm embarrassed that i have put you in this position for all that i have done i am so sorry i have a lot to atone for, but there's one issue i really want to discuss some people have speculated that elin somehow hurt or attacked me on thanksgiving night it angers me that people would fabricate a story like that elan never hit me that night or any other night there has never been an episode of domestic violence in our marriage ever elin has shown enormous grace and poise throughout this ordeal elin deserves praise not blame the issue involved here was my repeated irresponsible behavior i was unfaithful i had affairs i cheated what i did is not acceptable and i am the only person to blame i stopped living by the core values that i was taught to believe in i knew my actions were wrong but i convinced myself that normal rules didn't apply i never thought about who i was hurting instead i thought only about myself i ran straight through the boundaries that a married couple should live by i thought i could get away with whatever i wanted to i felt that i had worked hard my entire life and deserve to enjoy all the temptations around me i felt i was entitled thanks to money and fame i didn't have far i didn't have to go far to find them i was wrong, i was foolish i don't get to play by different rules the same boundaries that apply to everyone apply to me i brought this shame on myself i hurt my wife, my kids, my mother, my wife,'s family, my friends, my foundation and kids, all around the world who admired me i've had a lot of time to think about what i've done my failures have made me look at myself in a way, i never wanted to before it's now up to me to make amends and that starts by never repeating the mistakes i've made it's up to me to start living a life of integrity i once heard and i believe it's true it's not what you you achieve in life that matters is what you overcome achievements on the golf course are only part of setting an example character in decency are what really count parents used to point to me as a role model for their kids i owe all those families a special apology i want to say to them that i am truly sorry, it's hard to admit that i need help but i do for forty five days from the end of december to early february i was in impatient therapy receiving guidance for the issues i'm facing i have a long way to go i've taken my first steps in the right direction as i proceed i understand people have questions i understand the press wants me to wants to ask me for the details of the times i was unfaithful i understand people want to know whether elon and i will remain together please know that as far as i'm concerned every one of these questions and answers is a matter between elon and me these are issues between a husband and a wife some people have made up things that never happened they said i used performance enhancing drugs this is completely and utterly false some have written things about my family despite the damage i have done i still believe it is right to shield my family from the public spotlight they did not do these things i did my behavior doesn't make it right for the media to follow my two and a half year old daughter to school and report the school's location they staked out my wife and they pursued my mom whatever, my wrong doings for the sake of my family please leave my wife and kids alone i recognize i have brought this on myself and i know above all i am the one who needs to change i owe to my family to become a better person, i ought to those closest to me to become a better man that's where my focus will be as i move forward i will continue to receive help because i have learned that's how people really do change starting tomorrow i will leave for more treatment and more therapy i would like to thank my friends at accentia and the players in the field this week for understanding why i'm making these remarks today in therapy i've learned the importance of looking at my spiritual life and keeping in balance with my professional life i need to regain my balance and be centered so i can save the things that are most important to me my marriage and my children that also means relying on others for help i've learned to seek support for my peers and therapy and i hope someday to return that support to others who are seeking help i do plan to return to golf one day i just don't know when that day will be i don't rule out that it will be this year when i do return i need to make my behavior more respectful of the game in recent weeks, i have received many thousands of emails letters and phone calls from people expressing good wishes to everyone who has reached out to me and my family thank you your encouragement means the world to elon and me i want to thank the pga tour commissioner finchum and the players for their patience and understanding while i work on my private life i look forward to seeing my fellow players on the course finally there are many people in this room and there are many people at home who believed in me today, i want to ask for your help i ask you the fine room in your heart to one day believe in me again thank you。

你们有没有遇到过这种人,你跟他吵架永远吵不到一个点上,不是你说不过他,是他根本不会站在同一个观点上跟你说话。而且这种人啊,往往看起来都是那种受害者的角色,最温柔、最敏感、最委屈的那个人。举个例子,比如说昨天你们俩三点见面,迟到了两个小时, 我等的很生气,这是 a 对 吧?他不跟你说迟到的事,他跟你说,你听听吗?我昨天加班加到凌晨三点,你就不能体谅一下我吗?你跟他说我体谅你,但是你至少得跟我说一声吧。 他又跟你说,你怎么这么斤斤计较呢?我为了这个项目,我从来付出了多少,你从来看不见,这是 c。 你坚持说,我现在只说迟到不通知这件事,他直接跳过去说地了,行行,我错的,行吧,我就知道你早看我不顺眼了,你想怎么怎么样就直接跟我说,你发现没有,从头到尾他解决的永远都是 b、 c、 d、 e, 就是 从来不跟你碰那个 a。 而且最让人抓狂的是什么? 他看起来比你委屈的多了。心理学上这种叫隐性自恋型,人格障碍,也叫脆弱型 n p d。 你们可能听过很多显性 npt, 那 种自大的炫耀的,觉得我自己特别牛,让别人佩服他的服他的。但是隐性 npt 更可怕,它看起来完全相反,温柔敏感,好说话,总之都是受害者,但是内核 一模一样,极度自私,缺乏共情,需要别人持续供养。他的自恋区别在哪里?显星 n p d 说我最牛逼,你们必须崇拜我。隐星 n p d 说我最惨,你必须补偿我!显星 n p d。 用傲慢掩盖自卑,但是隐星 n p d。 用脆弱来绑架你, 明枪易躲,暗箭难防。隐星 n p d。 的 伤害是慢性的精神毒药,他们有几个标志性的操作,只要你中了一个,就得提高警惕。 第一个,他们是永恒的受害者,虚实,所有的坏事永远都是别人造成的,他永远都是最付出最无辜的那个人。第二,被动攻击的大师从来不会直接表达不满,用冷暴力、拖延遗忘来惩罚你。第三, 隐蔽的优越感,表面谦虚啊,内心觉得自己的敏感,对他人的痛苦完全麻木。第五, 情感勒索与道德绑架,用我都是为了你来绑架你,用恩情账本一件一件来要求你偿还。第六, 反向求夸。不好意思,只要赞美就绕弯卖惨。我见过最牛逼的啊,有人直接让 ai 骂自己,结果 ai 说你付出的这么多,还执迷不悟。我靠,你听听这个跟夸自己有什么区别?与其倒打一耙, 先做伤害你的事,然后把所有的责任推在你身上。识别到这种人,朋友们,不用看任何心理学的书,就看你的感受。如果你和一个人在一起,总觉得很累,很空虚,很压抑,总是在自我怀疑,总是在为他人的情绪负责,朋友们,总是在不敢表达自己的真实想法, 那你大概遇到了隐形 n p d。 那 该怎么办?第一,物理隔离,能跑咱就跑,不要试图去改变他们。第二,如果跑不了,用灰岩法则,像灰色的石头一样,反应平淡,不提供任何情绪价值,不争辩不解释。 第三,不要陷入受害者陷阱,他的痛苦是他的责任,不是你的义务。朋友们,我特别认同大兵老师的一句话, 不要轻易对任何人下结论,我们都是独立的个体,包括我。朋友们,总觉得是自己的问题,总在反思是不是我太计较了,后来才发现原来不是我的问题,是他们的问题。精神控制这个事,哪怕是爹妈,我绝对不能忍, 这不是爱,这叫奴化。所以你们身边有没有这种永远吵不到点上的人?评论区告诉我,你遇到的离谱的事是什么?咱不点名,只说事。

尽管五年没有拿下冠军,饱受伤病困扰,但老虎舞姿依旧证明了自己是高尔夫世界最具影响力的巨星。二零一八年九月二十四号,巡回锦标赛决赛轮最后一栋舞姿在锁定冠军的情况下,场边近万名观众再也无法忍受激动的心情, 纷纷冲破围栏走上球道,跟随着舞姿。在高尔夫世界里,这样的罕见器官只会发生在老虎舞姿身上。老虎于高尔夫就像是乔丹于篮球,拥挤的球迷大军疯狂的喊着老虎的名字,并拿出手机记录着这个难忘的瞬间。 五年里,舞姿历经了四次背部手术,排名从世界第一一度跌到了一千一百九十九位,没有人能懂他在这些年到底经历了怎样的折磨。 五年的等待之后,老虎舞姿时隔一千八百七十六天,终于迎来了久违的冠军,这也是舞姿的第八十座美型冠军奖杯。